January 2
“The LORD God said, ‘It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper suitable for him.’” (Genesis 2:18) NIV
After God declared that everything was good; for the first time, he stated that something was not good; something was not right, something was out of place. That something was the fact that man was alone and in need of help. As a matter of fact, one of the definitions of the word “alone” is: “Without help or support from anybody or anything else.” So the question should be: What is it that men need help with? In Genesis 1:28 the Bible tells us:
“Then God blessed them, and God said to them, “Be fruitful and multiply; fill the earth and subdue it; have dominion over the fish of the sea, over the birds of the air, and over every living thing that moves on the earth.” (NKJV)
In this verse, we see four distinctive instructions God gave Adam and Eve. This, my friends, is the Biblical basics for marriage. The problem is that many of us get married for one reason and one reason only…to have a free ticket to have sex and to live happily ever after. Soon, for many of us, marriage completely loses its purpose as it becomes boring and painful. Let’s look at these four instructions:
- Be fruitful: To be highly productive or creative. Marriage should bring the best out of us.
- Multiply and fill the earth: As always, in whatever we do for the Lord, it is never about us. God loves a big family. Weather we are talking about literal multiplication or spiritual children; marriage is the foundation for this awesome institution called family.
- Subdue it: To conquer. It is within the foundation of marriage that we find the God power releasing force to conquer the earth.
- Have Dominion: Supreme authority to govern. The people of God will be in charge! That is why Satan hates us so much and that is why he hates marriage in particular. It is through marriage that God is releasing that kind of power. A Godly marriage is a dangerous weapon for the kingdom of darkness.
Beloved, this is what marriage is all about; this was the help Adam needed and this is the help we need today.


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